Anonymous wrote:For me, flaky can mean two things. But it can be done. This was a really good read! No need to call names. This is an incorrect definition of the word. He wants to be the friend you can always count on, not the friend you can only somewhat count on. Plans happen in a flash, and plans shift and change in yet another flash.
Even if he can't always hang out with you or doesn't always have time to talk on the phone, he still wants you to know that he cares about you. Decide what will happen if they don't deliver, and make sure they know. A flaky person or a flake is mostly one who you can't count on for much. Of course, the first kind of flaky and the second kind often mesh, so it's def. That's the negative kind of flaky. Aries is also much more impulsive in his everyday life than people realize.
I feel like such a wimp! Flakiness is a good thing for pie crusts, but not for your scalp. It's only a matter of time before you meet someone who's always late, cancels important meetings at the last minute, and never acts on their commitments. He'd rather take things one day at a time and if something better comes along, then he's most definitely going to do that first, sorry! I try to cancel as early as possible. Diagnosis: Your friend wants to see you. That way, they can make plans with one of their non-dickhead associates.
Making plans isn't exactly a broken promise, but if you don't follow through, for one reason or another, that's by definition flaky. When you start considering them as a business partner or consider asking them to help you with a major project, then you might need to tone down the relationship. That's the negative kind of flaky. It's a case of overcommitment and trying to do too much It's okay, Pisces. Because you, also, have, a life. I assume that the day the plans roll around, I will suddenly morph from a bedridden, anti-social sea creature to a free-wheeling, energetic Mary Tyler Moore type, eager to put on jeans and leave my house and go see other human beings like your average 26-year-old. There were flaky gray patches that hadn't been there when he sat down.
Flaky people aren't as destructive as you might think. Do they treat other people like this? And while no one wants to admit that they are a flaky person with a particular zodiac sign that everyone knows tends to lack in follow through, astrology doesn't lie, which means So, keep reading to find out which zodiac signs who always follow through on their plans vs the ones who will flake out on you, according to astrology. It's possible to be friends with them, but the key is to not rely on them. They don't know how to stick to the facts. Everyone did show up except for one girl. I hate it when people call me that. Do they communicate in one steady conversation, or in loose chatter? People are also flaky because no one tends to call them on their actions.
Instead, gently point it out- preferably when they're in either a neutral or good mood. They can get their work done by subtly changing how they include Europa. Take note of their group behaviour. What the hell is wrong with you people, don't you have jobs? I knew a flake whose car was an unholy mess, her hair was always in disarray, and she was perpetually late. No one wants to be considered a flaky person, but it's hard not fall into the unreliable box when you let down a friend and canceled plans to go out at the last minute.
I'm not flaky when it really matters. Think about biscuit with flaky layers. When both of you are on an academics team, do they cancel a meet right before you get on the bus? I knew a flake whose car was an unholy mess, her hair was always in disarray, and she was perpetually late. At first it seems cute and spontaneous, then you just get really annoyed. For the white rabbit: if you meet up somewhere, you could agree on that she lets you know when she actually leaves after having already agreed on a time anyway , and leaving when you know she actually has left as well.
These instances are nearly always followed by some sort of excuse, which may or may not be lame. The cake came out of the oven light and flaky and beautiful. This is an Aquarian trait. A tip for dealing with the introverted friend: sometimes you might want to agree beforehand on how long you will hang out together. Thank you for the advice. I keep my promises as much as possible, but sometimes it's really hard for me to make a promise and want to keep it. He would rather worry about himself instead of making promises he can't or won't keep or breaking them and looking like a jerk in the process.