I am glad that you admitted that your current leaders are mediocre. It is equally unwise to impress him with his greatness and not with his lowliness. They are ready for the cheating game. Nigerians said no, it is about merit, it is about quality. I will tell you everything about this young lady who transformed herself into something very beautiful in the eyes of men. He would rather lie that he has no money, than to pay his share if the monthly bills in the home.
What do I make of this? You will just be poking a sleeping lion with a stick. Im really respect my husband n the people of Nigeria. There are no Igbo inside that room, we are outside! What you are saying is soo true. Needless to say we have lost the art of being a women to our men. There is nothing wrong in you tattooing your entire body, but what is my business with that? We still get lecture materials from them. Forget that nonsense you have been reading on the Internet: period. Right now we are not there; we are just outside watching for the smoke to come out.
As far as partign ways before doing so all i would say is to make sure that you both put in 200% making sure that you have done all you can do to make it work. It was a gradual emasculation of the Igbo man. Was it Igbo versus the northern Nigeria or eastern Nigeria versus northern Nigeria? His friends are more important to him than me, his wife. I eventually gave him my tel and he gave me his business card and home tel. And old women who could not bare children anymore. After over 20 years of not dating Nigerian men, I now find myself hopelessly attracted to an Igbo man half my age, knowing this connection will likely end in heartache.
And yes, the fact that you had to type this into a search engine on the internet tells me exactly what kind of man you have. He doesn't know that I know. Right now we are not in the room, we are outside waiting for the smoke just like when you choose the Pope. The things that makes me so mad and upset are the same things that I love about him. Thank God for the good and wise ones out there who understands wnat marriage is all about. We all treat women in similar ways. If you want to impress any girl or woman learn to give her gift and not just gift but love gift that she will always have each time with her.
It makes me realize how much he's listening and truly cares, I've never been more appreciative and in love with anyone like I am with him. These peolple were all from reasonably well off families and backgrounds. So make out time to spend with her now. Mediocres that pander to the whims and caprices of non-Igbo, they seek acclamation in Abuja, they carry Ghana-must-go in Abuja and they come back to become leaders. Two weeks after the initiation, a family member very close to your heart will die in a mysterious circumstance and another 2 weeks after, the next person close to your heart again will die too, these deaths will unlock your ticket to wealth, ability to fly at night to any part of the world, change into all kinds of animals to deliver your various assignments. He hasnt came home for almost 2 wks. An Igbo man will rarely try to convince you that he is good especially when you have a negative opinion of him.
God created man to be happy with one woman. I was raised to take care of the house cook, clean, etc. All of a sudden, the Yorubas built a party from the scratch and invited like-minded people to join, the Ibos refused, and eventually became the biggest loser. I have been on pills for severe clinical depression, and anxiety. I am one happy African American woman who can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
I talk to his cousin and she told me the same thing. This saying is true from my own experience all over the world. Consume it yourself with roasted pork or bring this as a present to a wine geek friend and prepare to impress with your knowledge of off-the-beaten path wines. I have tried so hard. She will ensure that apart from the English language, your Children will take up Igbo language as their second language.
Last but not the least, in the spirit of modesty I must say that to keep a Nigerian man you must be superlative in the field of congo shinesse as opposed to shining, since we do the shining-to hell with you riders! Like I said, it is a very heavy food and the best time to enjoy this would be in the afternoon or four hours before you go to bed, although we never cared about all of those rules while in the village. As a spinster or bachelor, get guides and counsel on how to have a fulfilling wedding, pre wedding pictures, honey Moon, how to build a home, not just a house, plan your anniversary, and love your partner the more to have a very healthy marriage. Your career is not really that serious. I can write about this ad neauseum , but we need to disconnect from mainstream Nigeria for a few years in order to decide the way forward for group redemption, and this agenda will not be led by politicians. However, the budget grocery chain is unlikely to impress with its first-half figures.