Not to mention creepily controlling. Was it a source of adrenaline rush? Compare his errors with your cheating whore actions? Have some character and think for yourself. They might turn to a website like this one in order to see if someone has any sympathy but as we can all see here there is none had for her. People discount how emotionally screwed up people can be. This meant I never really had a chance to revenge cheat because I would either get dumped or break up with the guy before having opportunity to revenge cheat, or I would get dumped or break up before even finding out he'd cheated.
I don't want to be alone the rest of my life, but I prefer it to betraying my wife, and my vocation, and I certainly prefer it to offending God. She was a bitch to him in every way she could be, at every opportunity she could. Most people involved in affairs are usually not bad people. My ex-wife does not want to be with me. I understend why but I still love him. To be a better person is to sacrifice your needs and have compassion for those you wronged. Your partner immediately breaks ties with whoever they cheated on you with.
The cheating spouse is giving up their family, friends, home, their past, their assets, and almost everything in their life for this other person, who in many cases they hardly even know. He even went as far as to take out one of his female friends and spent the day with her, and when I asked him to take me out he said he could not find the time. Not everybody can handle the truth when it confronts them and so your husband, as you mentioned, may not deal very well with issues of this nature. I also knew that he was too broken to continue to be part of my life, so I divorced him. Fast-forward three years later, and I was dating a wonderful guy.
Who knows what other fucked up shit you did. Because if you can't lock it in a box and put it behind you, end it right fucking now. I broke it off with the other lady the very next day. Cheating did not lead me to the love of my life or to someone better, but it did lead me to look at my life and find happiness in myself and in my own life, something that I was not able to do before. Could you live with yourself after cheating? You're selfish and a narrcisisst. They are 6 and 7.
I have never felt so alone and so isolated in my life. I suppose this is why so many affairs fail. Trust is the basis of any relationship, at the time i trusted him to be a decent human being. I wish this was just a bad dream and I could wake up in my ex husbands arms and tell me That every thing was alright. Eventually, I came to terms with the fact that that neither he nor my ex-boyfriend was what I wanted. I would like to be there and support both mothers of my children, my children, and take responsibility for my life, and she needs to accept that.
Some men are afraid of their wives. Well, sir, then you deserve everything you are getting, and happening to you. We have two kids together and I have soooooo many regrets! That is a large responsibility to put on one person. Hence one of her conditions for getting back together was that he cut Gary out of his life- deeming him a bad influence. Sexual infidelity often begins with seemingly innocent interactions, like meeting over coffee and then progresses from there.
And his life was pretty much one giant pile of shit. I am grateful to have her back in my life, as I now know that I cannot live without her. Look at me, i'm the victim. I still participate in family outings, and occasionally have dinner at my old home. Emotionally healthy, as Fra says pay attention to what she says, she's very wise! He improved so much faster when he was going to counseling for a short while. The regret and guilt I felt, kept me up at night, I had horrible heartburn and even headaches. Yet, you went back in, possibly raw dog, and two months later your side piece was pregnant, again! He's human and l know he can forgive you.
In the spirit of this thread, I am not sure where I sit as a cheater. She belittled him wherever she could. Now, sir, you tell me what type of future you can possibly have together? We were friends for many years before our affair started. I have however, seen many men trying to break up a relationship because they are convinced the relationship is no good for his friend. My ex is in a relationship and engaged. Doing the deed affects us in powerful ways.
Sometimes in life we make some decisions that we later live to regret as the repercussions can be so overwhelming that in hindsight we would have never gone down that road. Men can be just as bad, stop bringing cattiness into it as that misses the point. You have a whole life ahead of you, live it. Your ex-wife was very gracious in not putting you on child support, and not demanding alimony. And it never would have happened had I not gone to that party.
Coming home aglow is like wearing a red neon sign that says: Guilty! You really have to be certain about what you want — and you have to stand strong on whatever decision you come to. He hated that I earned more money than him, he hated that people were more interested in my career than his and he hated that I had a close relationship with my family. Sorry to say but ego and idiotic. We have a rational brain that tells us something is right and something is wrong. Ideally I'd find out, be able to immediately cheat back that very day with someone hotter, then rub my revenge affair in the guy's face while simultaneously dumping him. You can fool people, but you can't fool your intestines.