So I started to date younger women. I don't want to come across as shallow and certainly nothing against late-30s single women, but most single women I've met who are this age have children, because after all late 30s is getting late in the pregnancy game. I was a single father raising two teenage boys and had my mother living with me at that time, and she still stuck around. At football games she made me get away from him. Israeli ducks give better blowjobs, though. I think as long as ur happy and live each day as it comes then age doesnt matter. Search your hearts and minds both of you and decide together holding nothing back.
Even ten years one can start rationalizing. I need your candid advice. You might need to have more time, strength and spend money to take care of him. Age is what it is. We haven't been together quite a year yet, but we're obviously very serious about each other and hope to keep moving forward. Age, race, fat, skinny, tall, short, means nothing, it's what is in your heart and your soul that really counts. Now having been there i wldnt date a guy more than 10 years older than me.
Not age first than me. Is a 10 year age difference between the guy and girl guy 10 years older than girl too much for a serious relationship to work? I probably am a bit biased though I fell in love with a man eleven years my senior years ago. The conclusion of most research is that age differences have little effect on the probability of divorce. I myself use to feel that dating a man 5 yrs older or 5yrs younger was just right for me, but now I have different outlook on that. I have been in a relationship with an older man we have a 12 year age difference but the crazy thing is I am the more mature one and he is a little kid at heart.
Things have changed so drastically this year, that I am contemplating about staying in this relationship and help him get through everything. Like cuddle, talk, spend quality time together. I've never been divorced so my opinion on dating might be different on the subject then you that have had to experience that. I really feel like I let him down but we are back together now and as if we never parted. We are not together but are still close friends. My wife is caring, beautiful, optimistic, empathetic and positive. Although I feel he is real but like u said love is blind.
I've dated significantly older, and there was usually more fun and chemistry involved than when I went out with women my age. My mom doesn't really like anyone and we're not even close, but seems cool with him. However, two people in a relationship aren't a random, even if their meeting essentially was. I have never been into youngermen but found my selfin love it turns out with a 30yrs old guy with 4 children and have fought my feelings for a year u see i think this is paedophlia only its a woman doing it or he may be he. Although we lost touch with them around that time we had an irreparable falling out , ten years later we learned they were still together. We live in different countries, so we are forced to have a long distance relationship for a couple more years.
Would he be appalled by my tiny studio apartment, which I could barely afford? Thanks for listening, and good luck to you all. Stayed married for life, had kids, grandkids, even great grandkids. He gets upset with me a lot sometimes and we bump heads here and there like every relationship. What does age have to do with anything as long as you're both having fun and not hurting anyone else? I feel you on this. It works when the younger person is mature for their age, the the older person is also mature but still young at heart.
Never stopped loving him we still talk, we still click, we both wish we had stuck it out back then. I think every relationship is unique, and blanket statements about what will and won't work are shortsighted. Any views and opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by GoodTherapy. Men marry younger women and women prefer to marry older men, in general. Is this realistic, or am i over thinking the situation? So good luck guys and just live happily with each other. Yet soon after that, the slippery slope becomes 44 and 24, which can lead to Lolita situations and other felonies.
I do want a life together but sometimes get scared if people will see us different because of our age. If my family hates him should I stay with him? They hit it off and got married. . It is the same thing they just met later on right? Standing by your partner in such circumstances, and keeping in mind that compatibility is much more important than a number, will help you to make your relationship work. If it is really love it shouldn't be a huge factor as love enjoys the company of the other even in silence. I want to have a family, but I really want children of my own and not stepchildren.
My current woman is 13 years younger than me and neither of us knew we could be this happy. My parents love him and so do I. And I believe age gap is not a perfect reason for difference is relationship. Something I think that kind of wisdom really does come with age! I am 23 dating a 52 year old. She wants to go off and do stuff, and he stopped wanting to do much of anything more than five years ago. Seriously, she was born on the same day and same year. He does not think his parents would approve and he would like to have children, I love children but my children are grown up and I do not want to start over.
Made me feel so much better. I can't think of any instance where the age difference has caused an issue. I want more, and i could end up to be his care giver and would love that as long as his heart is kind and his hug is warm. I was born when Mom was 35 and Dad 25. But I just need to know. They will take over everything and do their best to ruin you both and it will be the worst pain of your life. If a man is 40, is dating a pair of 20-year-olds equivalent to dating one 40-year-old? He recently told me he feel something very strong for me.