Leaving my husband was a mistake. From A Husband. . .My Biggest Mistake, My Affair. . . 2019-01-17

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leaving my husband was a mistake

Let him finish this dirty work, if he truly wants out. In short — yes, you could have made the wrong decision to leave your husband. He's a good man but don't have feelings for him anymore. With our kids and lives I always considered the grand things I wanted to do in life on hold while we provide for and raise our kids; she viewed all of the grand things that she wanted to accomplish as gone with me holding her back. I think you're both right.

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I think working things out with my husband was a mistake. I’m in love with another man.

leaving my husband was a mistake

I know what happens, I've seen it. We made a pact to be friends and were so naive we believed it for a while, but we texted constantly. It was for dinner and a movie and I was excited and hopeful, but at dinner I started getting a feeling of overwhelming guilt. If you were looking for some sign that you'd made the wrong decision, you should have told him. If he beats u continuously , doesn't care abt u and the kids then u ve to meet ur sponsors, if he doesn't listen to them, then involve ur pastor, if he doesn't listen to him then involve ur family and if he doesn't listen to them, then my dear leave him.


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I think working things out with my husband was a mistake. I’m in love with another man.

leaving my husband was a mistake

You can and will be loved again but to avoid repeating your mistakes it's important to work toward self-actualization. Have 2 children with him. That's fine if that works for them, but it wasn't what I thought when I got married I get that marriages break down for all kinds of reasons, and have no judgement on that. I call these the workability factors. I didn't feel united, just full of self-reproach. Kathy August 31, 2014 at 1:33 am Ugh — I honestly think this is a assignment for mediocre writing class this idiot is enrolled in. Yeah, I know, I know, you think you're so tough.

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I Made The Biggest Mistake Of My Life

leaving my husband was a mistake

No matter what happens, you still have a family together and therefore you will always be connected with him on some level. I will never fully trust my husband again and thats heartbreaking to me. That always made me really mad. At least, to leave without trying to make things work first. Solonely August 31, 2014 at 5:23 am I have heard those words, over the course of 30 yrs, I heard them 3 times. The problem with forums in general is that people do not always articulate themselves and tend to be somewhat one sided and economical with the the truth.


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Life after divorce: what it really feels like to end a marriage

leaving my husband was a mistake

Did you know you'd made a mistake as early as Anna? Recently, he sister got married and we saw each other for the first time in 9 years. I've been doing this for 28 years and have regretted every waking moment that I met him and wish i could redo my life. We saw each other as frequently as we could and texted daily. Six months that I have been paying for my choice through reduced access to my most amazing children ever. E Faith - I lost all faith in her because she did A, B, C, and D. I don't know what to do. My feelings for her were fake, and initially I convinced myself I was there to simply help her.

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I Made The Biggest Mistake Of My Life

leaving my husband was a mistake

One night he took out the garbage and brought it to the curb because it was garbage night and I forgot again. Cuz for u to tell these ppl, u must ve endured it. I made a lot of promises that I would be breaking if I were to leave. Either way I hope you stay loyal to your wife and you have learned a big lesson. So many people waste so much time searching for answers in a past that is no longer relevant.

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It's been 6 months since leaving my husband for another man

leaving my husband was a mistake

I learned from a former coworker my husband has gone through hell since I left including job loss, money problems, depression, and the death of his mother. The damage to someone's psyche and years of emotional trauma you caused on him and your child is what makes this so damaging. Most people need some training or support to make these changes, but it is an alteration that anyone can make. Look, I don't care how much your wife loves handling the finances or how good at it she is; you should have a role in helping connect financial dots beyond just having a job. Doesnt matter if he doesnt hit you. He controls everything even though I work fulltime I have no money since he takes it all when I get paid my husband makes 4 times more than me but he takes all of my money so I have nothing to use unless I ask him for funds and give him a good excuse for why I need it. At least that is what I keep trying to tell myself.

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I knew on my honeymoon that I had made a mistake!

leaving my husband was a mistake

In addition to examining fear-avoidant versus goal-oriented behaviors in the process, I look at whose needs are driving the decision. It was selfish, and, for that, I live with the guilt of it. Im slowly trying to build myself up by upgrading myself so that i make a life for me. I didn't help pay the bills. But, knowing that I could feel attractive and wanted again made me keep going back for more. Then the new passion dies and there is a need to monkey branch to a new shiny fresh partner. She was married before for 15 years and its been 6 months for us now.

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Ten years later..I realize I made a mistake

leaving my husband was a mistake

Real life is dealing with kids, budgets, household problems the mundane and routine stuff even the things about our partners that annoy us. It takes instilled good values to even contemplate that outcome. Pride on his part is a huge issue that must be discussed in depth and at length also. I truly hope you and your wife make it. I am extremely happy with my new husband, more than I thought possible. I can't say the same for her. I'm looking to leave asap I'm Just so scared of my kids hating me and my family looking at me the wrong way.

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6 month modavox.coming my husband was a HUGE mistake :( : Divorce

leaving my husband was a mistake

I didn't imagine my soul mate would be an emotionally intelligent 28-year-old chartered surveyor. However, one thing you wrote kind of bugs me. You need to do the same, and embrace the lessons your starter marriage taught you about communicating your needs. But I was so torn. He started working,and I feel like everything shifted after that. I would tell myself that I could be a better wife.

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