I would have needed to forgive him anyway. He has even told people at school before he graduated that he did not have a sister and when he talks to his friends who know me he claims to be humiliated by me. I just want to beat him. It would be a very good idea for you to seek out a therapist to help you address this issue. So I told him I didn't do anything wrong, and he is just a nahlrahri and he needs to back off, because honestly, I do fine without him trying to protect my reputation.
As you said, that's so American, well she's american and I can't talk to her about it because she doesn't care that he did it. It seems you should have a talk with your mother that you feel undervalued; not about something silly like hitting eachother. But when you're around him, just try and maintain your cool. But for the past two years he has been very abusive and using hurtful words to put me down. Poking a bear is not a good solution to anything. We know what you want to do, but you seem like you won't do it.
He is being unfearful which is a bad thing. He is the definition of an elitist asshole that all he thinks about is how great he his at high school which is absolute shit because life isn't just about how great your grades are. He is the most snobby and selfish asshole I have ever met. Definitely not, especially a sister. He will hit me randomly and when i try to stop him and defend myself without hitting him he hits me ten times harder.
I'm not some physco if that's what you're thinking, I just cannot stand him hitting and slapping me and kicking me anymore. My placid and good-natured inborn temperament was what most people saw. We're always here for u. Knowing you did the right thing will take you a lot further than knowing you stood and did nothing when you could've acted upon it. It seems you should have a talk with your mother that you feel undervalued; not about something silly like hitting eachother.
And im saying this because my brother, older than me for like 8 years, always hit me back then. Now I didn't get straight A's but it was generally A's and B's and never C except for like 2 classes that I received an 84 in -. So you either find a way to deal with it or just stay out of their business. Slapping you is a big deal. One of the ladies there confided that her first abuser was her own brother. Even if my brother would had hit my sister for some odd reason I'd gone there in middle of it and stopped it from happening, regardless me being weaker at that age, regardless of the chance of me being beat up. There is no shame in calling the police if a family member is hurting you physically.
To his credit, he acknowledged his wrongs and expressed genuine remorse over the pain his actions caused me. Of course not, just call the cops on him yourself, if it happens again. Is it right that he hit a sibbling? I guess every family in Europe never fights and gets along hunky dory, or more realistically there's a ton of people suffering in silence. If you don't like mine? Communication is going to be your best friend in this situation and something that you'll take with you for the rest of your life. I take speed and agility over muscles only any day. So telling him to stop and threatening him other ways is the only other thing to do. You were a young child when this started.
My Korean friend when she has to be home at nine, she has to be home at exactly nine. She knocked a 6ft 190lb guy. Ok, basically my problem for him doing this is that he did it, didn't get called on by his own family like I was and lost his Xbox for 1 fucking day. Secondly from the above act, subconsciously he would understand that he will feel pain every time he hits you so I guess he will stop doing that. Have you ever stopped and wondered what he was feeling? Or just do something else about it.
Just Relax and take a step back. You should be talking to your parents and sister, not a bunch of random people on the internet. What he did was wrong. Or maybe you should just go purchase a pair of brass knuckles, see if he hits you, then slip them on and hit him in the abs once, not on a bone. If he does, then he's hit 2 people in the house.
I believed my needs did not matter. By that I mean I'd knock the crap out of him. He has no regret about it and laughs at me whenever I explain to him he should be in jail and just says I'm a total retard for even thinking he should. He wanted me instead to come to him with it. They always know how to make situations better. Really, bringing nationality into it? Threatening to kill you is janky. I lived in England for 8 years and well guess what if parent was ever heard of hitting their child not the brother hitting a sister then that parent would be looked upon as a horrible parent even if it was just a spank.