Anonymous How about this line I just want a good man,I'm not looking for him to be a father. However, all men are not dogs! They know the baby's father has no money and doesn't want anything to do with them. He will not understand that many single moms are used to having to provide for themselves and their children. But make him aware of your daily basics, and where your routines are ironclad and where your day is flexible. I never wanted the title of mistress, but I am one.
The point of my post is because I'm doing all this because I love them but they treat me like a complete piece of trash the kids come first which is the way that it should be but I come last completely and I mean I'm the soul provider for these kids and there mom and they treat me like if I was a bum and didn't do nothing for them. Not even presents, unless they are independent adults. It just seems to me as if single mothers are under the delusion that they'll find Mr. Men are less likely to get government support for raising children. Im a blogger as well and I totally love your works.
It has nothing to do with good enough. I perhaps dug too deep and found out that her former boyfriend or husband I see no evidence of this is a former pro athlete who was in the minor leagues of major pro league. Anonymous Oh, I made that mistake and it will never happen again! You guys don't see it because you're seeing things from the inside out, not the outside in. It is that complex and that simple. You didn't know I wasn't one of those girls that let pregnancy happen while unmarried. Physiologically, a woman's brain chemistry changes drastically when she is pregnant and has children.
. Maybe they wanted to just go out and have fun for a while. Told me he got custody of his kids because the mother was in jail. Feel like she's perfect except you don't want kids? Have fun, but be careful gentleman. How dare she actually want me to help her with things that have nothing to do with me? I know so many men and women who would rather cut their legs off, than be on their own for any period of time.
I help around the house, run errands, taxi kids around, try to communicate, but as mentioned before on these blogs, there's absolutely no communication or emotional bond whatsoever from her. Now I know I wasn't imagining things. Single moms are usually just the same as other women, except they are plus one. Just graduated college six months ago, work full time at a large company, and have no children and not planning on having any for quite some time. Life can sure throw you some curveballs. Do not try to save them because you feel sorry For them, like others have said, you are the last priority. I waited for the right guy but guess what! These psychotic moms use the court system to get their selfish way.
AndrewBat Thank you brother for you response. Please make these comment boxes more mobile friendly! But why is dating a single parent sexy? This blog just gave me more clarity than any phsychologist ever had. If more Single moms had them, they wouldn't be in the situation they're in right now. One day I would love to have another child. The guy whose x had his kid may be resentful about paying child support, he may not take an active role in his kids life, he may not act much like a father to his children. I barely know his family and my kids have only ever meant his parents and his sibling because his sibling resides with him. Be right up front that there will be no sex now or in the near future.
Feel powerful all you want but these are the traits of a doormat not a strong woman! Maybe that's why she doesn't understand how she fucked herself over by having kids out of wedlock with a dirty dick dude. Invest in yourself and your kids. Women, especially mothers, are cut for work. Just because they may initially think the other one is cute, does not mean there is a romantic interest. By watching an assortment of males freely enter into and abruptly exit out of your life, your son learns firsthand how to become a playa player, pimp, baller and shot caller.
Accept the Limitations If you are interested in having a long-term relationship with a single mother, you need to accept that her availability will be limited. I just love the way nosa reasons as well as aboki. Anon, I look the totality of women, not just their sexuality, but I am writing from a male perspective to males. And my family was more ready to bring someone new in, and so was Ii. Many women start reporting increasing difficulty getting dates once they pass 30, and feel invisible by 50. You may hate the father of your child.
I was used to banging girls and moving on. He even got remarried and had another child, recently divorcing again. Discriminating against a woman because she is taking responsibility for child rearing is not a negative, it shows fortitude, resilience and amazing character that many in the me generation lack; not to mention unselfishness. I too have more respect for these types of Single Mothers even though I would still not date them. Ive noticed that their wives are controlling, insecure, and desperate for them to stick around. Many of you seem so angry and hatefilled.